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Monday, October 28, 2024

7 months left No Changes on him

 


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Salam 1 Malaysia 

In the end, I no longer hold any expectations. For nearly 7 months now, I have seen NO change in Zaini, even in his role as a father. He has not taken any initiative in the welfare of the children. He is merely a provider, responsible only for fulfilling basic needs. I've tried to nurture his love and affection for their  children, but it has been in vain. Even when I bring Sophia along, he spends no time with the children, often leaving them at home to go out, socializing or dating his new partner. I realize now that any hope for positive change may be unrealistic, as from the beginning of our marriage, I was the only one taking care of Noah. Even as a father, he has only provided financial support, and only after being urged to fulfill his duties as both a father and a husband .

In my view, his failure as a husband for the second time could be forgiven if he was willing to change and admit his mistakes. However, it would be a great loss for him if he also fails as a father. By Allah, as his wife, I am deeply disappointed by his behavior and actions. It’s as if he lacks empathy for his own family, manipulating fabricated stories to those around him who are unaware of the truth. Many witnesses and evidence attest to the issues we faced. I sincerely pray that Allah guides him on the right path and does not lead him astray like those who were hypocritical in the past.

In Islam teaches, 'A good man is good to his family.'

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