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Alhamdulillah, the iddah is over.
Today marks the end of a long and painful chapter, my iddah period, which lasted 8 months. I am deeply grateful to Allah for granting me strength and patience throughout this journey.
During this time, I also welcomed my 2nd daughter into the world, Sumayyah Aleesya. A beautiful blessing born from a difficult path. Carrying her while going through emotional battles was not easy, especially when left completely alone, betrayed by the one who once promised to protect, and mistreated by both him and his family.
There were moments I was made to feel worthless, treated like I didn’t matter. But Allah never left my side. The prayers I whispered through tears over the years have finally been answered. Not in loud victories, but in quiet truths, through a series of events marked by heedlessness, a lack of compassion, and divine testing known as istidraj.
Day after day, I watch from a distance as my ex husband’s Muhamad Zaini Bin Zainal life unfolds filled with layers of drama and masks. Money and status have given him a sense of power, even superiority. But life built on illusions and manipulation cannot sustain itself forever. Buying people with wealth may work for a while, but the truth always finds its way.
This journey has not broken me. It has refined me. I stand today as a mother, a believer, and a woman who knows her worth.
Truth Will Always Find Its Way
As time passes and iddah ends, more truths begin to unfold, one after another. Painful, yet enlightening.
It was finally revealed that my ex-husband, throughout our marriage and even after, was involved in immoral and disgraceful acts, breaking the sacred trust of marriage with zina and continuous transgressions. Despite outwardly appearing pious through prayers and rituals, he neglects one of the most critical obligations, which is providing for his own children. In Islam, failing to fulfill the duty of nafkah (sustenance) for one’s children invalidates even the most sincere worship. Prayers without responsibility are nothing more than empty actions devoid of acceptance from Allah.
Throughout the course of my iddah, I also came to learn about a woman who had long been present during our marriage. Her presence hidden, her role ignored. Bit by bit, Allah revealed the reality. This woman, LCC Cabin Crew Batik Air Christine Chong, chose to involve herself in a family already broken, further damaging the fragile relationship between a father and his kids.
Christine, as someone who has experienced life as an orphan, one would expect empathy, especially toward children who are now emotionally deprived of a father’s presence. But instead, your actions have only added to their pain. A woman of dignity and true class would never build her happiness on the destruction of a family, especially at the expense of innocent children.
Isn’t your faith a guide to morals and values? Has it not taught you the meaning of integrity and compassion?
You now stand beside a man who has not only betrayed his own family, but has also been diagnosed with a clear mental condition: narcissistic personality disorder, a manipulator who twists truths to fit his narrative.
I have many times advice , Do not allow yourself to be another pawn in his illusions. And may you reflect deeply on the choices you make, because dignity once lost to money and manipulation is rarely reclaimed.
May Allah continue to reveal the truth, protect my children, and guide all hearts back to what is right.
To anyone walking through darkness right now, trust in Allah’s timing. He sees, He hears, and He will respond in ways far greater than we imagine.
Ya Allah, aku memohon kepadaMu dengan penuh harapan dan kerendahan hati. Bantulah kami yang berada di pihak yang benar. Lindungilah kami dari manusia yang mengkhianati, yang berlaku zalim, yang memutarbelitkan kebenaran dan menabur fitnah.
Ya Allah, tariklah keberkatan dalam hidup mereka yang menzalimi diri kami, dan jika mereka terus dalam keangkuhan dan tidak bertaubat , lalaikanlah mereka dengan apa yang mereka cintai sebagai bentuk istidraj dariMu, agar mereka sedar atau ditundukkan dengan keadilanMu.
Sesungguhnya, Engkaulah sebaik-baik pembalas dan pelindung kepada yang teraniaya. Kuatkan hati kami dalam menghadapi ujian ini. Ya Muntaqim , Ya Jabar .
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